On June 7 at about 3 a.m. I thought my water broke. I wasn’t exactly sure because this was my
first pregnancy and it wasn’t much water.
I was exactly 40 weeks pregnant with my first child and it was my due
date! At about 6 a.m. we decided to go
to the hospital. At that time I was
hardly having any contractions, but my water had broke so they had to keep
me. I started walking the halls of the
hospital with my husband. At about 11:00
I was only dilated to a 3 so they decided to give me Pitocin. Things really started to change at that
point. I started having harder
contractions and a lot of back labor. At
2:00 they checked me again but I was only dilated to a 4. I decided then to get an epidural and it was
the best thing ever!! My husband and I relaxed and watched a playoff basketball
game on TV. Finally at about 9:30 p.m. I
was fully dilated and able to start pushing.
Our son was born at 10:24 p.m. weighing 7 lbs. 7 ounces. They had to use forceps on him because when
he came out he was face up instead of face down which is a harder birth. Our son had a very big head and it was very
misshapen after delivery. At about four months old he had to go to the Denver Children’s Hospital because they were afraid the platelets in his head were
fusing to quickly. They decided they
were not fusing to quickly but he did have extra fluid in his ventricles. They watched this for a few years but
everything turned out fine. He still has
a big head and his head is still a little misshaped. My
daughter was born four and half years later and it was a much easier
delivery. I got to the hospital at
around 1:30 p.m. and she was born at 6:43 p.m. after only two pushes!!
I chose this example because it was my first experience with
childbirth. It was an amazing experience
and also a stressful experience. His
birth was difficult on both of us. I was amazed at the difference between my two childbirth experiences.
I chose to look at births in Iceland. In Iceland pre-natal car is free to legal
residents who have lived there for at least six months. If it is their first baby they will receive
ten visits and if they have already had a baby they will receive seven visits
with a midwife and doctor. Most women
have their baby in a hospital and they have a 17% C-section rate. Hospital births are free with health
insurance. Iceland does provide for
midwife home births for mothers who have favorable pregnancies. In Iceland you must pick your baby’s name
from the National Register of Persons.
If you want a name that is not on that list you have to appeal for a new
name to be added to the list. The name
must not be embarrassing and must conform to the Icelandic language and
customs.
The birthing experience in Iceland sounds similar to my
experience except for in Iceland you can have a baby for free! Their C-section rate is a lot lower than in
the U.S. and they use midwifes more often.
References:
http://en.island.is/family/having_a_baby/pregnancy_and_childbirth
http://www.medicalbillingandcoding.org/blog/the-10-best-countries-for-maternity-care/
I enjoyed reading your post. I also have a daughter and son. Their births were also different. It must be something about boys that makes them dilate slowly, but my daughter came very quickly. Naming your child in Iceland is very interesting.
ReplyDeleteSo the Iceland name thing is pretty crazy. Not sure I would like that. I also have a girl and a boy they are 18 months apart. I am very lucky that both of my pregnancies and births were very easy. I actually enjoyed the whole experience. I wish that I could have two more but my husband is quite content with our two kiddos. I recently took one of those dumb quizzes on facebook, it was the one that tells you how many children you should have. My number was 5+, however my husbands was 0. So I guess it is a good thing that we already have our two.
ReplyDeleteHi Courtney, I enjoyed reading your post. I send you courage and strength for giving birth more than one. I currently don't have children so its hard for me to understand what giving birth feels like. I am curious why you choose Iceland. It sounds very similar to the United States and I am not sure how I would feel regarding the naming of my child there. Thank you again for sharing your experience and Happy Mother's Day!!
ReplyDeleteI also find the Iceland name thing to be pretty crazy. I don't think I could name my child from the National Register of Persons. I enjoyed reading your birthing story about your son and daughter.
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